Visit to a Lady Barber

From The Oskaloosa Times, Feb. 6, 1903

One of Oskaloosa’s prominent citizens while in Kansas City recently, stepped into a barber shop presided over by a lady, and although he did not need it; having been shaved the evening before, he thought he would try the sensation of having a lady barber’s delicate touch remove the hirsute adornment from his visage. 

The lady asked him if he did not “want a hair cut,” but he was after a shave and gently, but firmly said “no.” After shaving the gentleman she smilingly asked if he did not want a face massage? Not being familiar with that term he concluded to cut it out, and again answered “no.” 

By this time the Oskaloosa man had become rattled to such an extent that when she said: “Oil and bay rum on your hair?” he this time said “y-e-s.” 

He handed her a quarter — on the quiet we think it was a dollar — and she handed him back two bits and a nickel, saying he had given her a half dollar, but he thought it was a quarter and so informed her. 

We don’t vouch for the correctness of this statement, but we publish it as it was given to us by the gentleman himself, and, being in the condition he was at that time he could not be expected to give a clear and rational account of the occurrence. We promised not to tell it on him and we don’t intend to. 

This story appeared in “Yesteryears” in April 1988.

Sold as a Slave

Charity Ross Will Soon Be with the Daughter She Has Not Seen for Forty-Five Years

Kansas City, December 29, 1898:

An old colored woman sat in the Union Depot yesterday, rocking to and fro, whimpering and moaning softly, while her tears fell on an envelope which bore her address, “Charity Ross, Valley Falls, Kan.,” written neatly. It was the first and only word she has had from her daughter, Mary Barnes, who has been lost to her for 45 years. The old woman said she had passed the hundred year mark. She had just learned that her daughter, whom she saw sold as a slave to a Southern slave dealer and carried away, a young woman, was still alive and living on a farm in Mississippi. The old mother did not have enough money to buy her ticket. She had nothing to eat.

Her story was one of the most remarkable ever heard at the depot, but no one could question it after beholding her pitiful figure and wrinkled face and tears of joy as she related in a broken way the incident of finding her daughter after nearly half a century.

The notion of trying to find what had become of her child came to her over a year ago. It was 15 years before the war when her daughter was sold. When she went to Kansas about five years after the close of the war, she gave up all hope of ever seeing her.

The first letter was written for her by a neighbor and was directed to her old master. After months of waiting she received a letter from him, telling her to write to a man who is today living on the old farm which forms part of the old plantation. He was the man who brought the purchaser of her daughter to him, and from him she might get definite information. Another letter was written, and again she waited for months before a reply was received. This time she secured information by which she came into communication with her daughter.

She seemed to have no doubt but that it was really her own child who had answered her letter. She said she sold everything she owned at Valley Falls to raise the money to go to Gunnison, Miss. She sold her cow and the little house in which she lived, with all its furniture. Detective Bradley counted her money and found she lacked only 40 cents. He spoke to several people about the depot, raised the balance and purchased a ticket. The porter brought her a basket of food, which would last until she got to Memphis. She says her daughter is about 63 years old.

Charity Ross is listed in the 1895 Kansas State Census, March 1, 1895, as a resident of Valley Falls, Jefferson County, Kansas. She was born in North Carolina about 1812 and was approximately 83 years old. Her occupation is listed as "housekeeper." She had come to Kansas from Louisiana.

This story appeared in "Yesteryears" in April 1989 and October 1992. It was published in the Kansas City Journal, Thursday, Dec. 29, 1898; the Atchison Daily Champion, Thursday, Dec. 29, 1898; the Independent, Oskaloosa, Saturday, Dec. 31, 1898; the Wichita Beacon, Saturday, Dec. 31, 1898; and the Valley Falls New Era, Saturday, Jan. 14, 1899.